The Saturday Post(s)

Saturday Post

Can I Marry for Looks? A thoughtful look at an often asked question.

God is at Work in Japan. Exciting stuff!

Suicidal Thoughts on Suicide. “I have needed to write this ever since the death of Robin Williams. Every public suicide gets to me. Well . . . every suicide I hear about gets to me, public or not. I wish it didn’t. I wish it was some distant thing that was as familiar to me as plane crashes, getting struck by lightening, or the death penalty. Sure, I have heard about those things and they are tragic, but they are what happens to those on the other side of the world, not to me. Suicide is different since, as many of you know, my sister killed herself in 2004.”

What the Bible Says About Spanking. A good treatment on an ever relevant question.

Why Curious People Cannot Get Bored. This is very good food for thought; especially for those prone to boredom, since the curious ones will probably read it.

What a Christian Can Offer That a Secular Therapist Cannot. “The psychologist views me as if there were no God. Another believer views me as I am before the judging and merciful God in the cross of Jesus Christ.”

One Thing You Will Never Regret. A great comic making a great point.

Op(rah) Ed(ited). An editor takes his sharpy to Oprah’s silly Starbucks coffee quotes. It is insanely good.

#HOWTODAD: This is an amazing tribute to dads everywhere. Good job Cheerios!

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An Instructive Conversation

Here is an exercise for all of us. Watch the 6 minute video (provided by Wretched Radio) below and ask yourself, “What does this video reveal?”

Here are some of the takeaways I got.

  1. Parroting Cultural Cliches. “There are so many translations, we can’t possibly know what was originally meant.” Todd Friel (red sweater man) does a good job helping this kid understand that, although the Bible has been translated, it doesn’t obscure the meaning, but actually makes it more understandable in contemporary speech. Lots of folks don’t know that many pastors/professors can read the Bible in the original language. But, this kid has heard the whole “too many translations” objection and simply parrots it. Many people believe what others tell them about Christianity without thinking about it themselves.
  2. Religion is Up to You. Many people think religion is entirely subjective and relative. To this guy, although there is only one proper way to build an air conditioner, getting to heaven is pretty much up for grabs.
  3. Words Don’t Mean Everything. Just because someone says they are a Christian does not mean they know the first thing about Christianity.
  4. Melting Pot Christianity. The fancy word for this is syncretism. This kid believes a little of what Christianity teaches and mixes in a whole lot of other beliefs as well. In the end, its not Christianity.
  5. We Need to Define Our Words. Throughout the video, the kid says lots of Christian things, but once Friel presses him on what he means by his words, you find out that he means an entirely different thing.
  6. Not a Lot of Thinking. You can tell that this kid, which I think is representative of most kids his age, hasn’t thought about God too much.
  7. You Can Have a Good Conversation Without Turning to An Argument. I appreciated that this conversation didn’t turn into a brawl although at many points the kid was shown to be very wrong in a lot of what he said. As Paul said, “Let your conversation be always full of grace, seasoned with salt, so that you may know how to answer everyone” Colossians 4:6).
  8. We Need to Take Teaching Our Youth Seriously. This kid has obviously gone to church, but his education on the things of Christ is extreme low. This is one example of why we need to take teaching/preaching very seriously with our kiddos. When asked about the things of Christ, may our kids not stumbled around with disconnected and unbiblical thoughts, but may they know how to give an answer for hope they have within (1 Peter 3:15). Yes, play games and have fun, but never let that take priority over preaching, teaching, shepherding, and growing kids into Christian maturity. Make it your goal to make your kids perfect in Christ, not entertained at youth group (Colossians 1:28-29).
  9. This World Needs the Undiluted Truth of God Spoken in Uncompromising Love. May we rise to the call.

What did you learn from this video?

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For Those That Don’t Feel Connected at Church

shutterstock_disconnectHave you been attending your church without ever connecting with others in a significant way? Does your fellowship at church consist of no more than a few small conversations on a Sunday followed by a week of no contact? If so, you are not alone. There are a lot of folks who attend churches without having any kind of meaningful connection with others. They attend the services, possibly chat a little bit with familiar faces, but then live completely detached and disconnected from their church until they return again next Sunday.

If this is true for your life, I offer the wise counsel from a recent piece by Pastor Erik Raymond. He offers nine ways for you (the disconnected) to connect more deeply with your church.

1) Pray to be impressed with God’s design in the church.

2) Go to church on Sundays.

3) Talk to 3 people that you do not know at church.

4) Open up your home to have someone over (hospitality).

5) Find opportunities to serve in ministry.

6) Pray for your pastors, deacons and fellow church family.

7) Talk to people about Jesus and invite them to church.

8) Be content with the ordinary means of grace (preaching, prayer, Lord’s supper, etc.).

9) Restart process.

The way ahead is always service through humility. God knows what he is doing with and through the church. We need to trust him, and, most often, get to work. If you are feeling disconnected or counseling those who are feeling this way, I challenge you to take an honest crack at this list. I think it will do the trick.

Don’t wait for others to do the hard work of connecting with you. I hope and pray they will, but please don’t sit and wait for others to make the first moves. Hear Jesus call you into fellowship with His people and obey Him remembering His commands are designed for your joy. Work to build relationships with those within your church. Invite them into your life and seek to bless theirs.

The Pilgrim’s life is not an easy one and we cannot do it alone. We need each another in much more significant ways than a once-a-week-catchup-conversation can offer.

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An Abortion Conversation

conversationIn excellent article about abortion, Greg Koukl imagines a very helpful conversation between a pro-life person and pr0-choice person.

“The government shouldn’t tell me what I can do with my own body.”

“Should the government be allowed to control your body concerning your two year old?”

“That’s different. That’s outside my body. Right now we’re talking about my uterus. The government shouldn’t tell me what I should do with my uterus any more than it should tell me I have to donate my liver or kidney.”

“On that I agree with you, but that has nothing to do with the pro-life view. Pro-lifers are not asking you to give up your uterus. Pro-lifers are saying that the government should be able to protect a human being inside your body just like it does an infant child on the outside of your body.”

“But we’re talking about my uterus, not a human being like an infant.”

“I thought we were talking about what was in your uterus.”

“Okay, but that’s not a human being.”

“It isn’t? Then what is it?”

“Nobody knows. It’s just tissue.”

“Well then, let me ask you a few questions about this mysterious thing in your uterus. You agree, then that there is something inside the uterus of a pregnant woman, right?”

“Of course.”

“Is it alive?”

“Like I said, no one knows when life begins.”

“You didn’t answer my question. I asked if it was alive, not when does life begin. So let me ask another way. Is the thing inside of a pregnant woman’s uterus growing?”

“Yes, it’s growing.”

“Well, this is progress. How can it be growing if it’s not alive?”

“Hmm… Okay, you’ve made your point. It’s alive. It’s living tissue, part of my own body, and the government has no say over my tissue growing in my body.”

“In principle, I would largely agree with your point about the government, but I don’t think this tissue is part of your body.”

“Of course it is.”

“Did you ever watch CSI?”

“Sure.”

“When the forensic pathologist finds remains of a human body, how do they determine which person the remains belong to?”

“They try to do a matching DNA test.”

“Right. If the DNA from the tissue matches the DNA of a hair sample from a known individual, then, they know where the tissue came from.”

“Right.”

“So if someone took a DNA test of that piece of flesh growing inside of your body if you were pregnant, would its DNA match your DNA?”

“Well…no.”

“Then whatever is growing inside of your body is not part of your body, is it? It’s tissue from a different body. That’s why it has a different DNA.”

“I guess so.”

“What kind of foreign creature do you think would be growing inside of your uterus when you’re pregnant.”

“I don’t know.”

“Well then, let’s go back to the CSI illustration. If forensic pathologists found a piece of tissue at a crime scene, how would they know if that tissue came from a human being or from some other animal?”

“I guess they’d do a DNA test.”

“Yes, but it would be a different kind of DNA test than the first one. This one isn’t looking for a match with a certain individual, but with a kind of individual. What kind of creature did this sample come from? What kind of DNA “signature” does the sample have? It might be dog DNA, cat DNA, possum road-kill DNA, or possibly human DNA. So if we took a piece of tissue from that living thing growing in your uterus, what kind of DNA do you think it would have?”

“I don’t know. I’m not a scientist.”

You don’t really have to be a scientist to know the answer to that question. Let me ask my question another way. What kinds of things naturally grow in a woman’s uterus?”

“You know, offspring.”

“So, if there is an offspring growing in a woman’s uterus, what kind of offspring is it? Could it be a dog, or a cat, or a possum offspring? What kind do you think?”

“I guess it would be a human offspring.”

“So we do know what’s growing inside your uterus when you’re pregnant, don’t we. It’s not a mystery. It’s not your tissue, but your human offspring. Someone else is in there—your unborn child. So now that we’ve solved that mystery, you think the government should be allowed to force you to protect your offspring when the child is outside of your body, but not when he’s inside your body. Right?”

“I guess that’s right.”

“Why should the government be allowed to protect your offspring on the outside of your body?”

“Because children are valuable.”

“Right, I agree. But that creates a problem for you now, doesn’t it?”

“How so?”

“Well if children are valuable outside of your body—say, right after they’re born—how are those same children not valuable when they are just a couple of inches away hidden inside your uterus? Why does the location of your child make any difference to the value of your child?”

(Note: This conversation is a good example of an apologetic tactic Koukl calls the “Columbo Method.” You can read more about the tactic here.)

John Piper said it well, “We know they are killing children – all of us know.”

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The Saturday Post(s)

Saturday Post

Is It Sinful for Unmarried Folk to Make Out? We know the world says it’s ok, but does the Scripture? A note: if you don’t like what is said, make sure you have biblical reasons why. Also, take time to read the article it links to.

The Osteen Predicament. Joel Osteen is a crook and false teacher. Here is one reason why.

7 Signs You’re Spending Too Much Time on Your Phone. Some good counsel on a pervasive issue.

Don’t Divide God’s Word from God’s Work. This is vitally important for Christians to know. Read this and you will see why.

The Marriage Bed for the Exhausted Wife. I thought this was an excellent piece on a very common tension that many hard working wives/mothers have to deal with. “That far too familiar feeling comes over her heart again.  The man she married ten years ago is gently approaching her for sexual intimacy…again.  She used to love his romantic advances, but as the busyness and sheer exhaustion of life have settled in, a newfound bad attitude now pervades her thoughts on sex…”

The Ethic of Caring for the Sick. Did you know the ethic and impulse of caring for the sick is the fruit of the Christian worldview? Without Christ, none of this caring for the sick business makes any sense.

Do Babies Who Die Go to Heaven? A short post linking to some important articles on the matter.

My Old Friend, Routine. “With Routine in our lives, I wake up at the same time every day. I come downstairs at the same time. I pick up my Bible and read it at the same time. I log a few minutes of blog writing at the same time. I wake Aileen and then the kids at the same time. We troops downstairs and read the Bible together at the same time. We eat breakfast at the same time. We get dressed and ready at the same time. We go out the door at the same time, to get the school bus or hit the highway at the same time. It’s all so predictable. It’s all so anticipated. It’s all so formulaic. It’s all so awesome.”

Hearing Aid Enables a 7-Week Old to Hear for the First Time. 🙂

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Three Powerful Ways to Pastor Your Children

Successful partnership seen between Afghan Police, U.S. Special ForcesTwo days ago I spoke of three bad strategies I see parents take in shepherding their children. Today, I’d like to talk about three simple, but powerful, ways I have seen parents work to shepherd their children. As with most of life’s best practices, these are not necessarily profound or novel, but are basic and fundamental. In shepherding our children toward a living faith in Jesus Christ, parents must…

Work to Know Them. Parents will be hard pressed to know how to lead, protect, and provide for their children if they don’t know their children. Shepherding takes intimate knowledge of those you seek to shepherd. Jesus said, “I am the good shepherd; I know my sheep and my sheep know me…” (John 10:14). Jesus does not shepherd his people in the same way because He knows His sheep are all different. They have different personalities, strengths, weaknesses, fears, interests, histories, etc. As the Good Shepherd, Christ knows all His sheep and shepherds them accordingly. In the same way, parents need to work to know their children.

So I encourage you to ask yourself questions like these. What are my kids’ hobbies? What are their strengths and weaknesses? Their dreams, fears, questions, confusions, and anxieties? Who are your children’s closest friends or favorite teachers? Parents who are intentional about knowing their children seek to know the answers to these types of questions so they can shepherd their children in the ways their children need them to. Work to study your children that you may become an expert in your knowledge of them and be able to shepherd them wisely.

Work to Teach Them. God has designed parents to be the primary teachers of their kids. In matters of faith and practice, the kids are to get the majority of their learning from mom and dad. Deuteronomy lays this out with clarity.

You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your might. And these words that I command you today shall be on your heart. You shall teach them diligently to your children, and shall talk of them when you sit in your house, and when you walk by the way, and when you lie down, and when you rise. You shall bind them as a sign on your hand, and they shall be as frontlets between your eyes. You shall write them on the doorposts of your house and on your gates. Deuteronomy 6:5-9

According to the Bible, parents are the primary teachers of God’s Word to their children. Parents are the teaching elders of the home. In God’s eyes, you are your child’s teacher whether you like it or not. Therefore, it is of utmost importance that parents take time to teach their children about the Scriptures and it’s life giving message! This can take place informally whenever teachable moments or good conversations spring up or in more organized and planned settings of church or family devotions. Either way, teaching needs to take place in the home.

Some parents feel a great inadequacy when it comes to their knowledge about Christ and the Scriptures and that often keeps them from intentionally teaching their children the Bible and the truths therein. However, that can and ought to be remedied. If you feel unable to teach your child the truths of the Bible then learn what you need to know. Ask your pastor to teach and train you so you can teach and train your children. Check out the recommended books here and start studying. Further, make sure to get your hands on Bruce Ware’s “Big Truths for Young Hearts. Ware is a seminary professor who wrote this great book to help parents teach their little ones about the immense truths of the Bible. There are scores of resources out there. Fill your mind and heart with God’s Word so your can, in turn, fill the mind and heart of your child.

Work to Model for Them. It is an old, but true saying: kids often learn more from what is caught rather than taught. Endless hours of Bible study will not usually come to much if the kids don’t see Christ in your life. If your theology doesn’t flow out of your fingertips, your kids won’t likely give it a second thought. Our children can see the things we really care about and often times are interested in those things. Sometimes our lives can preach a different message than our lips. If our children see us talk much of Christ, yet not obey, love, and cherish him in our own lives, they won’t usually be too interested. All of our kids are asking one simple question: are you smoking what you’re selling? If not, they won’t buy it. So the simple question for reflection here is: do I love and obey and honor Christ in the way I hope my children do?

One last word needs to be said. Looking over this list can be somewhat depressing for most of us. Images of failure sadly fill our minds and darken our hopes. Regret rise and joy is dashed. But, let’s not go that direction. I pray and hope that this post does not bring anyone to despair, but I do hope, where it is needed, it helps guide toward repentance. All of us, at every moment in our life, are in need of repentance; to turn from things of sorrow and sin so we may face Christ in grace. God is overjoyed by repentance (see Luke 15). The call of God toward repentance is alway a call away from sorrow and toward joy. So if this post had a sting, then let that send you to Christ to grace and instruction on how to change.

Let us all together turn from bad parenting strategies, rise to our call, and do all we can to shepherd our children to know and love Jesus Christ. Let us work to know them, teach them, and model the joy of the Lord in front of their eyes so they may rejoice in Christ with us.

 

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What If My Bible Reading Doesn’t Affect Me?

young man reading small bibleI don’t know if you have had this experience or not, but there have been times in my life where I was somewhat underwhelmed by what I was gaining from my own personal Bible study. I would think, “Although I am reading the Bible a lot, I don’t feel like it is doing me any good.”

Although there may be some significant reasons for that (some sort of sin, distracted reading, etc.) sometimes the problem is simply forgetting how usually grows us: not in big, obvious, or extravagant ways, but with his ordinary means in ordinary ways.

J.C. Ryle does an excellent job explaining how God uses regular and ordinary bible reading to change us.

This is a crafty temptation of the devil. At one stage he says, “do not read the Bible at all.” At another he says, “Your reading does you no good: give it up.” Are you that man? I feel for you from the bottom of my soul. Let me try to do you good.

Do not think you are getting no good from the Bible, merely because you do not see that good day by day. The greatest effects are often silent, quiet, and hard to detect at the time they are being produced. Think of the influence of the moon upon the earth, and of the air upon the human lungs. Remember how silently the dew falls, and how unperceptively the grass grows. There may be far more going on than you think in your soul by your Bible-reading.

The Word may be gradually producing deep “impressions” on your heart, of which you are not presently aware. Often when the memory is retaining no facts, the character of a man is receiving some everlasting impression. Is sin becoming every year more hateful to you? Is Christ becoming every year more precious? Is holiness becoming every year more lovely and desirable in your eyes? If these things are so, take courage. The Bible is doing you good, though you may not be able to trace it out day by day.

The Bible may be restraining you from some sin or delusion into which you would otherwise run. It may be daily keeping you back, and hedging you up, and preventing many a false step. Yes, you might soon find this out to your hurt, if you were to cease reading the Word! The very familiarity of blessings sometimes makes us insensible to their value. Resist the devil. Settle it in your mind as an established rule, that, whether you feel it at the moment or not, you are inhaling spiritual health by reading the Bible, and unknowingly becoming more strong. (Taken from Practical Religion).

Don’t despair that you may not be seeing how God is working in your heart. Keep your eyes on Christ and your nose in His Word and know that He is working even when you don’t see it. Often, the most significant growth is unnoticeable while it’s happening. God likes to grow us like trees rather than weeds. It takes longer. It’s far slower. But the end result is something magnificent and everlasting. 

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How Not to Spiritually Shepherd Your Children

bad_parenting_9As a youth pastor, I have seen a wide spectrum of parents and their unique parenting strategies. Some have been good. Some have been bad. Some have been down right ugly. Although I don’t have any kids of my own and, therefore, have no experience to speak as a parent myself (as I have confessed before), these observations taught me a lot about parenting. A lot about what I want to do as a parent and a lot about what I don’t want to do as a parent.

Here are three bad parenting strategies I have watched some parents buy into and reap the sorrowful consequences. These are three things I don’t want to do whenever I am a parent and hopefully you don’t do either.

Parenting by Osmosis. Google dictionary defines osmosis as, “the process of gradual or unconscious assimilation of ideas, knowledge, etc.” I have seen many parents think that their children will unconsciously assimilate their love for Jesus. These parents overemphasize the modeling portion of their duty at the neglect of their duty to intentionally teach them. They assume that their Christianity will rub off on their kids naturally.

The problem is that a knowledge of Christ is not nurtured without intention. Kids don’t fall into discipleship. There are doctrines that need to be explained (1 Timothy 4:6). There are commandments that need to be taught (Matthew 28:20). There are costs that need to be counted (Luke 14:33). There are lots (lots and lots) of questions that need to be answered and re-answered over and over again. Parenting by osmosis makes the deadly mistake of believing people drift toward faithfulness when in fact it’s the other way around. Intentionality seems to be key in shepherding one’s child toward Christ. Without it our children are adrift in the world’s river floating whatever direction it takes them.

Parenting by Outsourcing. This is a favorite for many parents. These parents seem to know enough to understand their children need some kind of intentional, spiritual shepherding, but instead of taking on the brunt of that responsibility themselves, they send their kids to the youth pastor! In short, they outsource their shepherding responsibility to their church’s youth pastor. Now, youth pastors exist to serve parents and youth and they should be looked to for help, but they should never (read: NEVER) be thought of or used as the primary shepherd of the church’s children. The parents are the primary youth pastors of their kids, not the church’s youth pastor. When parents outsource the shepherding responsibility to the youth pastor, they are choosing to not do what God has commanded them to do.

Not only does outsourcing let parents abdicate their shepherding responsibility, it also causes numerous problems for the children. First, it teaches the child to go to their pastor for any eternal matters since mom and dad have never seen too interested to help. This is unfortunate because a child spends only a few hours a week (maximum) with their youth pastor, but the rest of their time is with or around their parents. Outsourcing teaches kids that those they are around the most won’t help them with matters that are most important. Second, outsourcing tends to transfer a child’s heart away from their parents and toward their youth pastor. For many kids, the youth pastor is the guy who has told them about Jesus, taught them the Scriptures, and answered their tender/sensitive questions. As far as they’ve known, the youth pastor is the one who is able and willing to help them know their Lord; their parents are not. This is especially sad when, after their child comes to know and grow in Christ, the parents start trying to shepherd them and the kid resists since the parents never helped them before. Their allegiance has been given over to the youth pastor. This is terribly sad and can be avoided. Don’t outsource your children because it may outsource their heart.

Parenting by Overwhelming. This last strategy does the exact opposite of the previous two. Parenting by osmosis and outsourcing abdicate the spiritual shepherding responsibility, but parenting by overwhelming takes it on in a crushing way. This is the parent who makes sure their family devotions never go under two hours. They make sure that the family goes to every single church event rain or shine. The rules are heavy and numerous and held with unbending strictness. Every shortcoming is mercilessly punished in the name of excellence and every question is answered with a verse and no explanation or discussion. With good intentions, these parents suffocate the life breath out of their children. The good news of the gospel quickly looses its sense of goodness and the joy of the Lord. Often times, these are the kids that, once they go to college and get a little but of freedom, dive headfirst into the world and its pleasures because their “obedience” up until that point was nothing more than forced, external restraint. Their behavior was restrained and disciplined, but their hearts were never shepherded. Once the restraints leave, the true heart is revealed.

These are three pitfalls I have seen over my years as a youth pastor. There are more, no doubt, but there are not less. However, be not in despair! I don’t intend to end here. Tomorrow, I hope to post the best parenting strategies I have witnessed from the numerous godly moms and dads who have gone through our youth ministry.

HT: Pastor Dave Keehn for giving me the wording of the first two strategies from his excellent sermon this past Sunday.

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How to Slow Down Your Speeding Heart (Three Ways to Prepare for Prayer)

easily-distractedYou’ve probably felt it like I have. You sit down with Bible in hand; cup of steaming hot coffee to your right. The pen is ready and maybe there’s even a journal close by. Everything is in place for you to spend time in communion with your Lord except for one thing: your heart.

Our fast paced world is excellent at creating fast paced people. If we have to wait more than a few seconds for a webpage to pop up we sigh with frustration and check our phones to fill in the few seconds that seem like an eternity. If the drive thru line at Del Taco has more than 3 cars in it I sincerely question if it is worth it (note: it is always worth it). Our hearts and our minds have been conditioned for the immediate and the instant.

And then we, the fast and the furious, come to sit silently to hear from God in His Word and pray. Needless to say, for many of us, it isn’t easy.

Three Simple Ways to Quiet Your Heart for Prayer

How does one quiet his raging heart? How can we slow ourselves down so we don’t sprint through the rose garden of God’s Word or speed-date our way through prayer? I have found the counsel of David MacIntyre to be very helpful in this matter. In his book, The Hidden Life of Prayer, MacIntyre offers, “three great, but simple acts of faith, which will serve to stay the mind on God” so your time in communion with Him isn’t rushed or hurried, but a blessing.

1) Recognize you are accepted before God through the dying of the Lord Jesus. The first and most crucial thing to do when entering into a time of prayer or devotion is to remember anew that you are acceptable, indeed approved of God, because of what Christ has done for you at the cross. MacIntyre says that, “Our first act in prayer ought to be the giving of our souls to the power of the blood of Christ.” This is an amazing practice that both calms and comforts us to approach God boldly (Hebrews 10:19-23) as well as remember our act of prayer is not a means to be accepted by God, but is a celebration of already being accepted by God through Jesus. When you come to Him to pray, remember He first came to you to pay for your sins.

2) Call out to receive the Spirit’s helping grace. “Confess and receive the enabling grace of the Holy Spirit, without whom nothing is holy, nothing good.” James said we don’t have lots of things because we simply don’t ask for them (James 4:2). Jesus promised that He would gladly give us what we need if we ask the Father for it (Matthew 7:7-11). We serve a Living God who is also a Listening God. He loves to answer His people’s prayers, especially when their prayers are asking for help to pray. MacIntyre rightly says, “Without the support of the Holy Spirit, prayer becomes a matter of incredible difficulty.” Don’t get on bended knee without Him.

3) Focus your heart on the Bible. George Mueller (the fella who gave this rock solid, life changing advice for devotions) once confessed that often he could not pray until he had steadied his mind upon a text. Since the Holy Spirit’s “chosen means of enlightenment, comfort, livening, and rebuke (is) the Word of God, it is well for us in the beginning of our prayers to direct our hearts towards the Holy Scriptures.” Let your prayers be guided by God’s Word. If you find yourself in confusion as to what to pray for, turn your Bible to the Lord’s Prayer (Matthew 6:9-13) or the Ten Commandments (Exodus 20:2-17) or any other portion of Scripture where God reveals His will for your life or promises for your faith. Read them and pray in response to them. Let God speak to you through His Word and respond in prayer. It is a freeing thing to remember that God has much to say if we are willing to listen. It is a powerful thing to pray for things you know God delights in. Focus your distracted heart on God’s Word and pray for strength to obey the passage, confess your sins the passage exposes, intercede for others relating to what the passage says, or thank and praise God for the truths/promises He offers in the passage. God has much to say and there is much to pray about. Focusing your heart on His Word of grace will help fill your mouth with words of prayer.

Those are three ways to help your prayer and communion time with Christ. I hope they bless you and help you to regularly approach the throne of grace for all you need and to worship your King. As a freebie, I have been very blessed by Martin Luther’s short letter on prayer he wrote for his barber, Pete. You can read it for free here.

 

 

 

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The Saturday Post(s)

Saturday Post

What Kind of Blessing? Don’t miss this short one. Kevin DeYoung asks us what kind of blessings are we looking for and warns of following the world’s beatitudes instead of Christ’s.

Ladies, Know Your Role. “One of the reasons many wives struggle in their marriages is because they refuse to embrace the role God has given them as helper to their husband. The word “helper” ruffles their feather and their pride demands a higher position, a more noble title. But such desires sabotage marriage and prevent us from fulfilling our calling.”

Theology vs. Racism Primer. With the Ferguson uproar, this is a timely gift.

One of the Best Counseling Tips for Christians. Don’t quote scripture to your friend. “So yes, your friend needs Scripture. So do you – but Scripture that’s personalized, melded to real life. Don’t be content with abstractions. Ask questions. Pray for wisdom. And then speak.”

Defining Forgiveness. If someone were to ask you to define forgiveness, what would you say? “Being in the church and using ‘Christian language’ as much as I do, I have used the term ‘forgiveness’ for decades and a little while ago, I realized that I wasn’t really clear on a definition of the term…”

The White Helmets. This article made me think of Jesus, the Greatest White Helmet. “As the Syrian Civil War continues the death count rises in terrible numbers every day. Since the conflict began in 2011, over 200,000 people have died. But amid the terror, there is a small army of unarmed and politically impartial volunteers bringing hope to as many as they can. They are the Syrian Civil Defense, called the White Helmets, and they do what one journalist who spent time with them called the most dangerous job in the most dangerous city.”

3 Mistakes Our Definition of God Must Address to Avoid Atheism. This is excellent. “It’s important for a Christian ministry to have a good definition of God…In fact, the definition I’m proposing will turn billions of religious people into atheists by the end of this article.”

Dear Single Christian Sister…An very good open letter to all single Christian women. Lots of wisdom. If you are a single Christian lady, read it. If you are not, read it.

Breaking Up to the Glory of God. How should Christian breakups look like? Deepak offers some good counsel. As a supplementary read about Christian dating, check this out.

 When Your Dad is a CG Artist. Coolest thing ever.

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